Archive for DSR with Steve Peck
Conscious Dating After Divorce
Posted by: | CommentsIn this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, we explore what Freud called “the unconscious” – the collection of repressed thoughts, wishes, fantasies and drives, many of which have an aggressive quality. What is the relevance? Inside these unconscious conflicts lies the answer to why we are attracted to and or seem to attract a certain kind of person.
The show is called Conscious Dating and our guest is Elizabeth J. Tupling, MS, TLLP is a psychotherapist specializing in individual, and family therapy, and maintains a private practice in Huntington Woods, Michigan.
For the person who is wondering why they are always drawn to the “bad boy” or “bad girl”, the addict, the emotionally and or legally unavailable person, it’s important to “open up the hood and look underneath”. What we’ll usually find is a long standing, established pattern of being attracted to the same kind of person, and not knowing why. Like a moth to a flame, we drift toward exactly what we consciously know is not healthy for us – it’s a real primitive, primal process that originates in early “imprinting” in the brain. This imprinting creates an unconscious definition of how relationships should feel for us – good or bad.
The challenge for the listener is to examine what feels “good” in the early stages of an attraction. And if the person is doing a truthful inventory of these feelings they might find that subtle cues of rejection, the need to chase, dismissal of one’s needs, justification of disrespectful behaviors, all feel vaguely familiar, comfortable and worse off, comforting. Doesn’t make sense does it? It usually doesn’t, it’s unconscious.
For more on Elizabeth Tupling, visit: www.MySoulGrowth.com. For more programs on divorce and life after divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.
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The Anatomy of An Affair - Part 5
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Part 5 of our series, The Anatomy of An Affair continues with David Feder.
Listener note: This is Part 4 of this series, and if you are finding this program through our archive directory, iTunes or Stitcher Radio, it is advised you begin with program 1 and follow the podcasts in their original order.
In this episode, David answers questions on might have if they have been involved in an affair such as:
• Should I agree to therapy with my partner if he hasn’t ended his affair yet?
• What is the best way to end my affair with my Affair Partner?
• How do I make my partner feel safe when he/she pushes me away. It’s frustrating and I am feeling hopeless. I can’t seem to do anything right.
• How do I rebuild trust after an affair? Are there steps to follow?
• What about sex after an affair? I don’t feel like it but I’m afraid if I say no, it will be my fault that my partner goes back to his Affair Partner?
• What is Forgiveness?
• Should I tell my children about the affair?
• Affairs in the workplace - What do I do if you both work at the same company?
For more on David Feder, visit: www.MyLifeAfterAn Affair.com.
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The Anatomy of An Affair - Part 4
Posted by: | CommentsPart 4 of our series, The Anatomy of An Affair continues with David Feder.
David Feder
In this episode we take a look at why affairs happen. David discusses the different types of affairs and what recovery entails.
We also explore what you should do when you suspect your spouse is cheating and help you understand why the affair happened.
Listener note: This is Part 4 of this series, and if you are finding this program through our archive directory, iTunes or Stitcher Radio, it is advised you begin with program 1 and follow the podcasts in their original order.
For more on David Feder, visit: www.MyLifeAfterAn Affair.com.
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Stop the Madness - A Psychic/Energy Healer’s Perspective on Divorce
Posted by: | CommentsPsychic and Energy Healer Helene joins Steve Peck and shares her spiritual insight into stopping the madness during and post divorce. Helene resides in Salem, Massachusetts and works with clients all over the world, offering guidance and support from the Angelic Realm.
Helene Olsen
As one of the nation’s leading energy healers, Helene brings a unique perspective to the process of going through divorce and moving on to a healthier, new life.
In this program, Helene teaches how your own personal energy can have an influence on a strained relationship. Other topics in the program include:
- How can we remain calm in spite of all that is going on around us?
- How to deal with the legal challenges
- Dealing with the financial aspects of divorce
- Worrying about our children
- How can we lower the conflict in a high conflict divorce?
- What to do if our ex is saying hurtful and false things to friends, family and our kids?
- How can we strengthen our personal Energy?
- And much more.
For more information on Helene or to schedule a personal reading, visit: www.AngelsLightHouse.com
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The Anatomy of An Affair - Part 3
Posted by: | CommentsIn this the 3rd segment of our series, The Anatomy of an Affair, we focus on two aspects of recovery. David Feder believes strongly that moving “from discovery to recovery” means much more than merely moving on and allowing time to pass. David says, “if you do that you are leaving the quality of your recovery and your life up to the Gods”. He asks, are you sure that that is what you want to do?
In this segment we begin by discussing what should be considered when making the decision of whether staying together and rebuilding your relationship should even be considered. If not, we review the other option of focusing your recovery on yourself and on becoming the best version of yourself that you can be.
This segment also reviews some of the more common reactions people have once learning of an affair, and we provide tips to take care of your health during this difficult time. The early stage of recovery is a critical time in which you and your partner are at your most vulnerable and this should be taken seriously. Safety is of course paramount.
Regardless of whether the affair that is impacting your life surfaced recently or whether you have known about it for some time, you will benefit from the constructive and important information included in this segment.
For more on David Feder, visit: www.MyLifeAfterAn Affair.com.
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The Anatomy of An Affair - Part 2
Posted by: | CommentsThis is Part Two of The Anatomy of An Affair, a series of programs taking a closer look at infidelity. Our guide throughout the series is David Feder, founder of My Life After an Affair.
David Feder
David has a passion for helping people recover from the trauma of infidelity and his practice is dedicated to accomplishing just that. As David says, “everyone will recover from infidelity…the question is HOW?”
In Part 2 of this series, David addresses putting your world back together after someone cheated, regardless of whether you had the affair or you were hurt by it requires a VISION of where you want to go and how you are going to get there. David explains his 6-step recovery process named VISION, a path that if followed, leads to a full recovery and a better future.”
Listener note: This is Part 2 of this series, and if you are finding this program through our archive directory, iTunes or Stitcher Radio, it is advised you begin with program 1 and follow the podcasts in their original order.
For more on David Feder, visit: http://MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com
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The Anatomy of An Affair - Part 1
Posted by: | CommentsThis podcast begins a series of programs taking a closer look at infidelity. Our guide throughout the series is David Feder, founder of My Life After an Affair.
David has a passion for helping people recover from the trauma of infidelity and his practice is dedicated to accomplishing just that. As David says, “everyone will recover from infidelity….the question is HOW?”
Listener note: This is Part 1 of this series, and if you are finding this program through our archive directory, iTunes or Stitcher Radio, it is advised you begin with program 1 and follow the podcasts in their original order.
This series will look:
- How affairs begin
- Sexual versus emotional affairs
- The role sex addiction place in affairs
- Should you admit to an affair?
- How to rebuild trust after an affair
- The recovery process
- and much more.
For more on David Feder, visit: http://MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com
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Understand Sexual Dysfunction and Have Better Sex!
Posted by: | CommentsMale and female sexual dysfunction affects millions, and is at the core of many past and future relationship problems. Edward Lichten, M.D., AKA, “Dr. Love”, is back on Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck to discuss the reasons and cures for such problems.
If you are a male, new to dating, and ready to become involved sexually, you might fear performance anxiety. Dr. Lichten breaks down the reasons why men might not be able to achieve an erection due to stress, even with Viagra, and provides advice on dealing with this situation.
For many women, achieving an orgasm doesn’t come easily. Dr. Lichten explains why this is so, and introduces a propriety cream that is helping women achieve powerful orgasms regardless of their age.
Edward Lichten, M.D.
Dr. Lichten explains what women really want and need to feel fulfilled in a relationship, and it doesn’t always require a hard erection. The key, as he explains is LTH, or Loyalty, Trust and Honesty.
Other topics include:
- How aging effects erections
- How testosterone level decrease in men and women as they age
- How the stress of life or a new relationship can cause sexual dysfunction
- Understanding that only 9% of women reach orgasm through intercourse
- The role Oxytocin plays in relationships and attaining an orgasm
- How menopause affects a woman’s ability to enjoy sex and what to do about it
- and much more.
For more on Dr. Edward Lichten, visit: www.USDoctor.com. Have a question you would like us to ask the doctor? Write us at [email protected] or write from our Facebook page at: www.Facebook.com/DivorceSourceRadio
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Divorcing Matters for Divorce Support
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The exploration of divorce through self awareness and social understanding in a positive, unique forum inspiring change.
In this episode of Divorce Source Radio from The Family Support Expo in Toronto, Steve introduces listeners to a new online divorce support resource called Divorcing Matters. (www.DivorcingMatters.com) Discover how to develop your core elements of emotional intelligence – self-awareness, self-management, social-awareness, relationship management, resilience and responsible decision making. Learn to positively take control of your emotions and your personal relationships.
This website is based on the theory of Emotional Intelligence. In essence, recognizing your emotions, understanding what they are telling you, and what they mean to you. Understanding why you feel as you do and knowing how to manage those thoughts and feelings allows you to be more in control of your life. Emotional intelligence also involves your perception of others: when you understand how others feel, you can manage your relationships more effectively.
Dr. Catherine Chiappetta and Lorraine Campanile are our guests and walk us through their online resource. For more information, visit: www.DivorcingMatters.com.
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Alone for New Years Eve? Join Steve Peck on Divorce Source Radio!
Posted by: | CommentsMany people are alone for the holidays due to a recent break-up or divorce… You’re not alone. I’m Steve Peck, host of Divorce Source Radio, and I’m going to be alone for New Years Eve for the first time in many years myself this New Year’s Eve.
So if you find yourself alone, please join me for our New Years Eve “live” podcast on BlogTalk tadio beginning at 11:00pm Monday January 31st to 1:00am EST. Click: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/divorcesourceradio/2013/01/01/alone-for-new-years-celebrate-here-with-steve to listen in at 11:00pm EST.
You can join the show by calling in, and we’ll have special guests. So bring a bottle of wine, champagne, beer or your favorite beverage, and let’s NOT be alone, let’s be together and wish each other a very happy New Year. I hope to see you here.
