Quieting the Mind - Episode #3 Single Again! Now What?
By · CommentsThe fun returns in episode #3 of Single Again! Now What? with Joanie Winberg, Lesley Hatfield and Steve Peck. As in past shows, we bounce all over the place discussing life’s most interesting life topics.In this show, one of the main topics we discuss is the need to quite our mind in order to truly connect with our “God Source” within. And then, once again, the conversation bounces back and forth and can go from serious to unbelievably silly in a New York minute.
We can relate to what you are going through. Our shows objective is to lift you up, support and entertain you. So join us on the Lite Side of divorce weekly on Divorce Source Radio.com. We’d love to here your thoughts regarding this new show. Send comments, questions or suggestions to [email protected]
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Identifying Your Sexual Style
By · CommentsCouples often avoid sex because their sex life has become dissatisfying or conflictual. If talking about it is uncomfortable (and for most it is, at least a bit), avoidance can become the path of least resistance. Lack of time is often a convenient excuse. Talking about sexual concerns in a caring way and planning together for sexual revitalization can be the cure for avoidance.
Most couples can work through their sexual frustrations and miscommunications simply by learning to communicate about what is important to them and what works for them and what feels intolerable to them and why
In this episode of Sex after Divorce, Juliana Neiman provides a “statement check -list” to help us to recognize our sexual preferences. Once we have a better understanding of our sexual desires, the goal is to share our needs with our new partner in a healthy way.
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Does My Teen Need Treatment?
By · CommentsIn this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick M.D., we discuss how to tell the difference between an upset teen and a teen that needs treatment, and perhaps medication.
Teenagers are rarely easy. Normal adolescents, bless their hearts, can be moody, demanding, self centered and otherwise preoccupied at the expense of their studies or the family. When things go wrong, it can be rocky going. Depression, eating disorders, oppositional behavior and drug use are just some of the quagmires lying in the way of healthy adolescent development. Treatment can be a Godsend; even medications when appropriate can help many of the problems that teens may face.
So, do we just run to medicate an adolescent when he or she starts to show symptoms during a divorce? The side effects of medications are real, but not doing any treatment may lead to far worse.
The teenage brain is a developing organ that won’t reach maturity until twenty-five or so, and the psychological roller coaster of emerging independence and sexuality can be daunting for girls and boys alike. Add a divorce (or any real stress), and figuring out what’s going on psychologically can be tricky. While your adolescent may be inherently inconsistent, moody, or test limits, during a divorce there are additional pressures to deal with over which he has little control - like the dissolution of the family as he knows it, perhaps warring parents or just worries about what the future may hold.
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Adjusting to Being Single Again
By · CommentsStart the New Year right with our NEW, UPLIFTING SHOW on Divorce Source Radio, Single Again! Now What? with Joanie Winberg and Lesley Hatfield.
Divorce can be so serious and bring you down. This show is all about life after divorce and bringing you around. Our divorced and single hosts deliver a show you can relate to, because we’re all in the same place… single and divorced.
Together, we hope to learn, love, and laugh our way through this show and the rest of our lives. We invite you to come along for the ride. Feel free to write us with comments, questions, or suggestions to [email protected].
Today’s Conversation Includes:
- Life after the holidays
- Dealing with unhealthy eating and diet habits
- Is dating after divorce in the best interest of your children?
- How to date appropriately for the sake of your kids
- And much more
For more on Joanie Winberg visit: www.FreshStartAfterDivorce.com - For more on Lesley Hatfield visit: www.NiteSweatz.com
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This is the final broadcast of 2011 and we’re going out in style giving our listeners a FREE eHarmony Weekend.
Visit our website at www.DivorceSourceRadio.com and click on the eHarmony banner to get in on this special for DSR listeners. It’s a great way to possibly find the life partner you always dreamed of and at no cost to you.
Also in this episode, DSR founder and host, Steve Peck, provides a year in review for 2011 and tell of new things to come in 2012.
Thank you for being part of our Divorce Source Radio community. It has been a privilege serving you during this challenging time in your life. We wish you a healthy, happy and prosperous New Year!
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Single Again! Now What? - New Show Introduction
By · CommentsWelcome to Single Again! Now What?, a new program on Divorce Source Radio with hosts Joanie Winberg and Lesley Hatfield.
As the title implies, this is a show designed for individuals who have gone through divorce and are looking to rebuild a healthier and happier life than ever before. The hosts have experienced divorce firsthand and provide thoughts, feelings and advice in a fun uplifting format.
Going through divorce can be one of the darkest times in an individuals life… welcome to the other side! This show is going to be fun and informative. Listen weekly on www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.
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Organizing Your Divorce and Empowering Your New Life
By · CommentsIn this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, we discuss Organizing your Divorce and Empowering your Your New Life, with our guest, Laura Campbell, of The D Spot.
Laura is a divorce coach and author of The Ultimate Divorce Organizer: The Complete, Interactive Guide to Achieving the Best Financial and Personal Divorce, a book Steve believes ALL Divorce Source Radio Listeners should have if new to the process of divorce.
The Ultimate Divorce Organizer is a comprehensive resource for knowing what comes next, preparing for it, and keeping track of all that you will need to accomplish during divorce. Despite feelings of being overwhelmed, loneliness, confusion and fear, Laura believes this journey can be the catalyst for reclaiming your joy, independence and freedom.
Topics in the program include:
- Dealing with the legal and emotional side of divorce
- Why avoiding litigation is in your family’s best interest
- How to get what you want out of your new life
- How to be a better co-parent
- Ways to improve communication with your ex and future love interests
- When is the right time to move forward with a new relationship
- And much more
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder during Divorce
By · CommentsOn this episode of The Intelligent Divorce, Dr. Banschick and Steve Peck speak with Dr. Andrew Klafter, director of psychotherapy training at the University of Cincinnati Residency Training Program.
Dr. Klafter has dedicated much of his research to learning more about Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition in which people have an inflated sense of self-importance and an extreme preoccupation with themselves.
Before someone might be classified as being narcissistic, it is important to keep in mind that, like every psychological disorder, narcissistic personality disorder too comes in various degrees. Going to the extreme, we might argue that each of us has somewhere a narcissist in her/himself. It even could be said that a narcissistic tendency is important for survival.
However, in the same context it must be emphasized that, while a narcissistic tendency is constructive, a fully elaborated or developed symptomatic of NPD is nothing but destructive. So how do you know if your spouse or even you is a narcissist and what can you do if this is the case?
In this program, we identify what a NPD is and discuss living with and divorcing a narcissist. This is not an easy situation to deal with and turns many divorces into a “high conflict” situation requiring special attention. Dr. Klafter believes a true narcissist can be turned around through therapy and go on to have fulfilling relationships as long as they understand that they have a problem.
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How to Communicate Your Sexual Needs to a New Partner
By · CommentsIn this episode of Sex after Divorce with Juliana Neiman, we discuss the importance of understanding your sexual needs and communicating them to your new partner.
Poor communication skills among couples is one of the main reasons many marriages fail. Although there are many important topics to communicate about in a relationship, discussing your sexual preferences early on in a new relationship can lead to a healthier and more intimate relationship.
Juliana Neiman has a wonderful way of helping us better understand our sexuality, and you may even want to listen to this program with your new partner. It is our hope that this program leads you to a better understanding of what each other’s sexual needs are, and ultimately to greater intimacy.
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Spending Holidays Alone and Beginning New Traditions
By · CommentsDivorce Source Radio’s Steve Peck has a discussion on spending the holidays alone, with DSR The Smart Divorce host, author and divorce consultant, Deborah Moskovitch.
We share our different backgrounds as we discuss Deborah’s experience of being alone during Hanukkah, and Steve’s during Christmas. We also touch on the difficulty of being newly divorced at other major life events and celebrations.
As the program progresses, we become a bit more philosophical, as we discuss why and how couples fall out of love in the first place. And we ask the question, “Are those in high conflict divorces actually more in love with their spouses, and soon-to-be exes, than those who divorce with a mutual understanding that they have both simply fallen out of love?” What do you think? Write us your thoughts at [email protected]. We’d love to hear from you.
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